Mary Murphy’s reflection on prayer in a time of famine

In our minds and hearts we are to think of those who are suffering and in need. Right now, through our media services, we have become aware of this crisis of famine and the tragedy in Norway. It is important to keep all those who suffer in our prayers. This we believe and profess each week in our liturgy. Prayer is real! Prayer in times of tragedy and famine also helps to shape us as disciples to value life and remember the gift and fragility of life.

We are reminded to cherish those around us, our nutrition supply and continue to cultivate hearts of gratitude and reverence for food and the people and creation we love and those that we can’t even picture or call by name.
    
Perhaps during this famine, our grace before meals will take on a deeper meaning. Maybe how we shop, cook and eat will change and become a prayer in themselves. Maybe our actions in prayer will heal the famine or end the broken relationships that cause our global hearts to stall or go numb.
    
Prayer is real. And when we feel overwhelmed – lost – we bring that to prayer too- because it is God who can change water into wine, make manna in the desert and give hope where there is no light.

Mary Murphy is pastoral associate at St. Joseph’s Parish

St. Joe’s: a place where faith meets action

St. Joseph's Parish interior (Ottawa, Canada)

St. Joseph’s Parish is in the midst of fine-tuning its new communications strategy. An important part of this process included asking parishioners at all masses, including students and young adults at university mass, to tell us what draws them to our church. We received a wide array of responses, but some of the adjectives that kept coming up in dozens of responses included: welcoming, friendly, progressive and liberal. Here’s how our parishioners and guests see St. Joseph’s Parish:

  • Invitation to be the Spirit – not shackled by prescriptive Catholicsm but open to the paths of the mystics – accepting – weekly reinforcement of us in God and God in us.
  • The house of God and I love the place
  • Compassion, sharing, cooperative, awareness of other’s needs, gentleness, sincerety
  • Equal partners ( women – men, lay-religious; young-old) parish members make decisions, take responsibility are accountable – no clericalism
  • Social justice inclusiveness, re-claiming Catholicism
  • Care for the poor, everyone having a place, liturgy, deep, meaningful, communal, progressive, Living the Spirit of Vatican II
  • Spiritual, caring, warm, inclusive, welcoming of children. My wife is fighting stage 4 cancer and I need the spiritual and warmth of a church, so I do not feel alone in this fight we are in. She usually cannot come because of the illness, so I come alone.
  • A community that tries hard to “practice what they preach”
  • Realistic, 21st century – catholic teaching while respecting the history of a 2000+ year old tradition – hopefully not going backward. Should St. Joe’s begin to return to the proceedings of the church prior to Vatican II – I will reluctantly say farewell.
  • Progressive, non-traditional, youthful, change-oriented
  • Prayer that is alive, calls us to be attentive, nurtures the soul…lifts the heart. The preparation of liturgy calls us to a deeper sense of who we are in God and one another
  • A dogma-free place and community of worship, a faith-celebratory place
  • Welcoming, liberal, diverse, outreach, vocal community
  • Radical, welcoming, faith in action, justice and solidarity, action community
  • Oblate, home, accepted, tolerance, mission to the lonely and the poor, beautiful
  • Homilies, welcoming, prayerful, challenging, inclusive, atmosphere, environment, reflection of the good. Prayer silence is powerful and necessary. No need to provide distractions like today’s dancers. It takes away from the impact of the word.
  • Social justice, fellowship through liturgy that connects all, willing to take risks to express our faith, our mission, our love for God in all people.
  • A community which is inclusive, vibrant, liberal, reaching out, progressive, active, loving, caring for the poor, working for social justice
  • Liberal, open-minded, inclusive and still Catholic
  • Service, community, openness, welcoming, unique, family. This community is so open and welcoming. No one is a stranger here.
  • Truly a spiritual experience – not “religious”
  • Warmth, lay homilies, liturgical dance, beautiful music
  • A supportive and inclusive community – equality. “be the change you wish to see in the world”
  • St. Joe’s brings life and meaning to “we are church”
  • Modern and democratic – “a church for today’s world”
  • Inclusive, heart centered, justice oriented, welcoming, seeking through silence, celebrating God’s love
  • Liturgy well celebrated and reflective – conscious of social justice
  • Apparent and intense dedication of the parishioners, strongly female
  • Creative, liberal, welcoming, thought-provoking
  • Refuge, home, welcome, trust and  challenge, community, safe to be self, myself, yourself, ourselves, rooted in tradition, connected to contemporary realities
  • A sharing community imperfect but always striving to be inclusive…striving to find its place in the modern world
  • Welcoming, avant-gardiste, open-minded, open heart
  • Peaceful, translate Bible to modern stories, music
  • My anchor, welcoming community, real embodiment of God’s teachings, reminder of my purpose on this earth: to love my neighbour
  • All are welcome, open, not rigid, willing to bend when necessary
  • A tall drink of water in a desert church
  • Great music. Because the community of St. Joe’s accepts and loves me for who I am, in my strengths and my failings, I have greater faith that maybe God loves me too.

Now tell us about your experience and what you’re looking for in an open and welcoming Catholic parish community, especially as we prepare for another semester at university! Let us know by either posting your comments, or sending an e-mail to: cadam@st-josephs.ca .

Christine Burton’s reflection at St. Joe’s: The Parable of the Sower

Dorothy Day, the founder of the Catholic Workers Movement, spread the Word through action, not words.

If you’re like me, when you hear this parable, your first reaction is probably something like „ACK!  Am I a faithful seed about to be choked out by the weeds and thorns of a secular and cynical world? Is my faith planted in thin soil? Will I wither at the next crisis? Am I returning 100-fold? What if I‟m only generating a 60-fold or a 30-fold or, golly, only a 10-fold return? What‟s God gonna think?‟

All good questions.  But the trouble with these questions is not what they ask, but their focus. There’s a whole lot of “me, me, me…‟ going on in that reaction. So much of Jesus‟ example was about turning away from an I-centred focus and towards our brothers and sisters. And thus, as I
reflected on today’s reading, looking for a different perspective, I realised that there’s another person, another role described in the parable – the Sower.

Can we be the sower? Jesus says “the word is the seed.‟ Can we spread “the word‟ more widely and more effectively in our communities?
Ok, so given all the very public issues we have been facing as a faith community, it seems to me that just admitting you’re a practising Roman Catholic these days, let alone getting into discussions of faith and quoting scripture, can be pretty unnerving – what will people think of me?

And, even though pretty much everyone who gets to know me finds out pretty quickly that I’m a Christian and that I believe that God speaks to us in different ways, giving rise to different faith traditions, and through a range of holy writings that can speak to all of us, I am still not crazy about the idea of constantly talking Bible-talk. Save it for the revival meeting…

And most often when we talk about “the word‟ we think of the Gospel. So the prospect of talking about the Gospel to people at work, in my social life, anywhere other than at church – yikes! – it can feel as if I’m just one step removed from wearing a sandwich board sign saying „Repent!  The end is near!‟ Maybe I’ll go back to that whole self-absorbed me, me, me approach…

But then I remembered the opening words of the Gospel of John: “In the beginning was the word. And the word was with God and the word was God.” And it came to me that sowing “the word‟ isn’t just about the Gospel, isn’t just about “Bible-talk”, but more so, it is about making “the word‟ – God – manifest in the lives of the people with whom I interact every day.

So how are we going to do that? Is this possible without talking about God and Jesus? Well, last week, Father Andy talked about Mother Theresa. She is one of the most revered modern holy people. She talked a lot about God and Jesus. But we didn‟t hear about or from her until very late in her life, by which time her lifetime of action, caring for the poorest of the poor in India gave her words even more credence and weight – it was her actions not her words that showed God and Jesus‟ love. And our own patron saint, Saint Joseph, is silent in the Gospels as we have received them. And yet he is a saint, held up as a living example of the power and love of God made evident in the actions of a human man, and through those actions, making the world a better place for all of us. Did not both of these people – and Dorothy Day and Oscar Romero and so many other saints and blessed and holy men and women – sow the word, making God manifest through more than their speech, but through their lives and their actions?

Good. Get out there and be a Mother Theresa or a Saint Joseph… Nothing like setting the bar high… I don’t know about you, but I am so not likely to be called to stand in for Mother Theresa anytime soon.

So what does “sowing the word‟ look like in our context? We are given a clue in the fruits of the Holy Spirit, mentioned in the second reading – when we live in joy rather than despair, we are sowing the word; when we demonstrate patience, when we respond to anger with love and kindness, when we encourage peace in our families, our workplaces and our society, when we give with true charity and compassion in our hearts.

We may not be called to be Mother Theresa or St. Joseph, but we are called to listen to God’s voice in our hearts and take those steps that are available to and right for each of us as individuals, whether that might be to be an activist working for social and economic justice in our community, our country or our world, whether it is to donate personally to the St. Joe’s Supper Table and to work with our colleagues to organise a food drive instead of a “worst gift exchange‟ at the office, or to sign a petition, or even just to take a deep breath and offer a smile to someone whom we could just as cheerfully strangle…

And the best part of this? Like the sower, and as promised in the first reading, I don’t have to worry about where the seed lands, I just need to sow it – widely and continuously – and let God take care of any questions to do with the growing conditions – sending the rains and snows as mentioned in the psalm – or as to whether there are weeds or thorns present or what the depth of the soil might be.

Perhaps, then, we can take our best sowing instructions from St. Francis, who said “Preach the Gospel always… use words if necessary…”
May God bless you always.

An invitation to the Capital Pride Parade

An invitation from the GCCA

You are invited to join the Capital Pride Parade on August 28th, 2011, at 1:00PM.

We march every year, because we want to tell the Pride Parade’s participants and viewers that it is possible to live in integrity as a person of faith, who is both gay and deeply spiritual.  We believe that there is a place for everybody at Christ’s table.

Please join us at the Pride Parade and help make this message heard. All people have the same gift of love to share! Following the march, at 2:00PM, the group invites participants to the St. Joe’s Supper Table (151 Laurier Street East) for light snacks and refreshments. This event is sponsored by the University of Ottawa’s Gay Catholics, Christians and Allies Group (GCCA).

For more information, please contact: clgbt@uottawa.ca

Fr. Andy’s homily for July 2, 2011

Fr. Andy Boyer, St. Joe's pastor

All weariness is not the same. You come home from a day spent at a desk in an office and say, “I am absolutely exhausted.” The reason is that you spent the entire day under the stress of meeting a deadline. You are genuinely tired– mentally, emotionally, and even physically. You come home from a two-mile run and say, “Wow, I feel great!” You are tired physically, but you are invigorated, you are on a natural high. There are different kinds of fatigue and different causes. The all call for some kind of rest.

1) Rest from worry.

It is often said that the fastest growing disease of the 21st century is stress. Stress, as such, need not be a disease or ailment. Dr. Hans Selye, in the Stress of Life, says we “should not try to avoid stress any more than we would shun food, love, or exercise.” But the growing complexity of life in a time of massive and unrelenting change puts great pressure on humans. Add to this such factors as a faltering economy and joblessness and anxiety is inevitable. There are limits to how much stress we can endure. Jesus says, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”

Rest from stress, anxiety, or worry is one of the most blessed forms of relief we can experience. But it requires a different mental state or attitude. We must see things differently, find another perspective, come to a new point of view. Jesus invited his followers to stop being anxious about tomorrow. Leave tomorrow’s worries until tomorrow. Take life one day at a time. Do your best today, and trust tomorrow to God. Jesus said, “Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me.” What is a yoke? It is not a device for a single animal. It is a wooden bar or frame by which two animals, such as oxen, are joined at the necks for working together. Jesus is saying, “Get in the yoke with me, and we will work together.”

2) Rest from striving.

One of the most exhausting of all human activities is sarcastically called the “rat race.” It is the striving for material security or wealth. A materialistic culture regards success as the accumulation of possessions. The problem is that such an environment encourages greed in the individual. Jesus told a parable about a man whose business was so successful that all of his barns were full. Rather than sharing his goods with the less fortunate, he tore down his barns and built larger ones! The toll of greed on the human spirit is increased when a culture defines success in external and material terms, rather than internal and spiritual values.

The writer of Ecclesiastes sounds almost contemporary, although quite negative. He cries, “Vanity of vanities! All is vanity.” Reflecting our theme, he says, “All things are full of weariness.” As to the “rat race” he refers to such pursuits repeatedly as “a striving after wind.” Robert Short says we find “a Christ-shaped vacuum” in Ecclesiastes. There are few portions of Scripture that are more relevant to our own time than Ecclesiastes. Will we commit ourselves to a pilgrimage of faith, to an upward way that is transformative, or will we continue in pursuits that are merely “a striving after wind?”

3) Rest from pretense.

One of the most tiring of human undertakings is deception. Life is challenging enough when we are being honest and being ourselves. When we are presenting a false front or a manufactured image of the world, life becomes exhausting. Pretense of some kind is as widespread as the insecurity it attempts to hide. Most pretension is relatively innocent and harmless, but it can be unhealthy, dangerous, and tragic. Seriously pretending to be something other than who and what we are is going against the Creator and creation. Our faith affirms that each of us is a unique creation, made in the very image of God. Our faith calls us, especially in Jesus Christ, to become who we really are, and all we are meant to be. The darkness within us whispers that we are not adequate as we are, and urges us to see other people as threats. If we believe this, we will do whatever it takes to gain power over others.

The brilliant William James said “to give up pretense is as blessed a relief as to have pretense gratified. ” Rest from pretense is possible only when we accept ourselves as good creations of a good Creator, and as children of God. The person who by grace finally arrives at self-acceptance feels that an enourmous weight has been lifted. “I am so tired of trying to be someone I am not.” There is a strong sense of relief and of freedom. “I did not realize how unhappy I was.” There is an experience of coming to oneself, “I feel like I have come home.”

Rest is a sacred theme throughout the Bible. The healing power of physical rest is valued for those who need it. But there is a rest so complete that it renews the soul. In Isaiah we hear: In rest you shall be saved; in quietness and in trust shall be your strength.” (30:15)

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